I am so excited to get started on the #100People Project this year. My goal is to get inspiring stories from 100 different people. You can read the post about it
here.
A lot of you are really excited to join me, have come up with your own variations, and are ready to connect with sweet strangers these next 4 months. I've gotten a lot of questions as to HOW I am going about doing this... I know it pushes you out of your comfort zone, so here are some suggestions to your most commonly asked questions!
Q: Do you ask them what their story is? Or how do you get a story out of them?
To put it simply... yes, I ask. There are a lot of ways to do this, depending on the conversation you are having with whomever you're talking to. Here's my favorite way of asking... (After we've talked for a couple of minutes) "This is totally random, but my new year's resolution this year is to meet 100 people and hear their inspiring stories. I would love to hear a story from you that has inspired your life, would you be willing to share one with me?"
You'll be surprised how cool people think it is that you're interested in them, and have set a goal to reach out to 100 people.
Q: How do we sign up to join you?
Every Monday, I'll be sharing a few stories from my week. In the comments, I'd love to see your links to your own blog posts about your #100people projects, or write your experience for that week in the comments. Also, post your stories on The Shine Project Facebook page. Throughout the week use #100people when you post things on Twitter and Instagram, so we can create a community to read each others experiences.
Q: Alright, I really love this idea. I'm way more of a "game plan" person though - for instance, how exactly could I meet 100 people?
Let's be honest, you're not going to meet 100 people in a day. That's why I've set a goal to do this over the course of 4 months. Just today, I met a post office worker, a cashier at a store, and a guy behind me in line. Be creative. Say hi to the people who are already surrounding you, and ask them about themselves. People LOVE telling their stories, so it's a lot easier than you think! Set a goal every time you leave the house. "Okay, I'm going to Target right now, and I'm going to talk to the cashier." It helps you remain conscious of what you want to accomplish, and makes it less overwhelming when the time comes to talk to someone.
**For my blog purposes, and to inspire a lot of people, I am videoing some of the people's answers who I meet, if they allow me to. They will be informed that it is for a video use and will be signing release forms. Do not do this on your end...
If you're feeling really shy about this, start small. Reach out to your neighbor, start gathering inspiring and heroic stories from people you already know. The whole point of this is to connect with people, and to be inspired from untold stories.
Today, with her permission, I want to share with you a story from a reader. This is a great example of what the 100 People Project is all about.
"It was New Years Day, and all my friends had spent the night in this beautiful loft downtown. We had reservations in the morning at this amazing breakfast place (Brians 24) for brunch. We were just about to pay the bill when one of my friends said that there was a guy that she had made eye contact with about 5 times throughout the meal, but he had just left. “I have to go find him. I can’t explain it, I just have to go ask for his number or something.” We were laughing. Was she seriously going to go chase after him? No one has that kind of confidence. She took off out of the restaurant and about 10 minutes later came back. She couldn’t find him. She was visibly distraught and kept saying how she couldn’t explain it. Something was just telling her she needed to talk to him, but she didn’t and now she couldn’t think of anything else. We encouraged her to go search again half jokingly. This time, she didn’t come back for 15 minutes. She had found him. She said she was walking down the street, just praying and asking God to lead her to him. It had been quite a while since he had left the restaurant in downtown San Diego. He could be anywhere. She turned a few streets down. “I bet he’s in that Starbucks.” She walked in, and there he was. It turned out he was in San Diego to surf- there was a big swell over new years. He was from Canada and was only going to be here one more day. For about an hour after the incident, she was visibly shaken… not necessarily about the guy, but about God. She said she had never approached a guy before, and that God had given her the confidence and determination she needed to do it. It was as if a miracle had struck her, and all she could say was how real God was. If she ever doubted His existence that was all gone now. The reason for her meeting him might not ever be revealed to her or maybe it will. I just think it is amazing that there was a reason, and that she followed through on that feeling without letting fear get in the way.
What would happen if you went and talked to that person who caught your eye? When you see a homeless person and wonder their story- what if you went and asked them? What if you suddenly had all the confidence in the world and you could approach whomever you wanted with no fear of rejection? What would happen? I have had that gut feeling that I needed to go talk to someone, but I always let that fear get in the way of following through. Now I can’t help thinking, what would happen if I did?"
How amazing is that? I wanted to share someone else's story with you today so that you can see that this is doable. I will share my story from this past week tomorrow...
Please leave questions, comments, and stories in the comments below!