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Monday, March 5, 2012

Finding Your Purpose

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Shirt c/o Shop Kempt

I'm a big believer that our minds can literally accomplish anything that we
set out out to do, as long as we use the power within us correctly.

Mike and I went to an art festival in downtown Phoenix this past weekend, 
and naturally I wanted to eat and was tantalized by all the delicious food trucks there.
I was starving, and wanted some sweet potato fries more than life.
On my search for them, there were so many other food choices that I became
seriously distracted. I mean, seriously enticed by every smell.
I forgot how bad I wanted sweet potato fries because it was taking too long to find them,
and I wanted food right that instant.
Then it happened: I saw a food truck with $4 fish tacos, and I couldn't even think about anything else.
I ran up, ordered, and anxiously waited for my dinner.
oh my goodness 
was I disappointed when I was handed the smallest taco I've ever seen in my life.
One taco, for $4. An ant could have eaten it and not been full.
I wanted to pout.
I instantly regretted not getting what I wanted in the first place; sweet potato fries...
And ended up eating part of Mike's dinner because mine was so unsatisfying.

In life there are so many things competing for our attention that it becomes
really easy to forget what we set out to accomplish in the first place.
Whether it be our goal seems too hard, we get to busy, or we settle for something that
satisfies an immediate need... it's a battle to constantly make the choices that lead us closer
to our goal. 

I've learned that living each day with a purpose makes life more focused, and goals become more obtainable.
Some of you might be saying, But I don't even know what my purpose is at this point.
To you I say, don't you worry, we're going to help you remember...Because you have one...
and I guarantee you that it's a big one. 

Purpose= Why
Goal= What
Action/Strategy= How

When I wake up in the morning there's a few things I ask myself.
1. What is my purpose today? (Why am I doing what I'm doing?)
2. What do I need to accomplish? (What's my goal?)
3. How am I going to get there? (What do I need to do to make it happen?)

When you channel your mind to a specific purpose, figuring out the direction you 
need to take becomes a lot easier and much less overwhelming.
You're great. You have a great purpose. And you are more than capable of obtaining it.
Don't you forget that.

The SALT LAKE CITY SHINE EVENT is being planned, and will officially be announced
in the next week! I need 5 project leaders to help organize the event and announce it with me.
If you live in the SLC area please email me at Ashley.theshineproject@gmail.com 
if you want to be involved!

Upcoming events:
San Diego- Click HERE
Northern Virginia- Click HERE

20 comments:

Molly S. said...

I love this post and it is more than true! I am faced with this struggle every day and feel like I leave the important things behind as other things are calling to my attention "right now". Focusing is something I need to work on because I KNOW for a fact I have a great purpose to fulfill but I need to stop....and really, really search for it.

Inspiring...as usual!

xoxo

Unknown said...

Thank you so much for the reminder! It is so easy sometimes to settle for immediate gratification instead of holding out for bigger + better - what we really want. <3

Chelsea said...

This is such a beautiful post and so, so true. I can relate with this SO much right now. I've been overwhelmed with the sudden passing of my mom, but, life goes on. I'm going to start asking myself those same three questions every morning to re-focus myself :)

Oh, and if I still lived in Salt Lake, I would totally have volunteered to help! I'm sure it's going to be wonderful!

{andthisiswhatshesaid} said...

great post! thanks for the reminder!!!

Sierra said...

Seriously, you are amazing. Your writing has such depth and clarity and inspiration! I can't get enough! Thank you so much for sharing your gifts with the world.

And I totally relate to this post. I am ADD, so I'm like "Ooh, shiny things! Oh, wait, a squirrel!" all the time. LOL I need to focus on what I really want & need & go after it whole-heartedly. :)

Hanna said...

Hi sweet Ashley....Haven't been able to comment in a while because I've been so busy. I'm actually in New Orleans right now. Ran my 1/2 marathon in less than 2 hours...will have a BIG post about it when I get back..Now I'm on to the full but I just wanted tou kknow that I love you and adore you. You look gorgeous as always and I always find inspiration here. Thanks for being you:)

CoastWithMe said...

Ashley, it's so funny how something as simple as sweet potato fries can make for such a wonderful lesson and story! Thank you for sharing it with us and reminding us to follow what it is our heart desires most!

Rita

Bree said...

Love this post. It's so easy for us to get distracted. I talked about kinda the same thing on my blog today. :) ps- come do a shine event in Houston!

Heather said...

:) love this. cant wait til you hit central Florida! One day :)

btw, that 1st pic is beautiful, it almost looks as if the fllowers are part of your pants.

your comparison with food and life was great.

Alli said...

I really like this post. Right after this comment I'm going to set a goal for myself today and give myself a purpose. Thanks!

On a side note, I was REALLY excited to see a northern Virginia event, but since it's on a Tuesday I can't get out of student teaching. thanks for thinking of us on the east coast though! If there are any future events I'll try to make it out.

Jen said...

It's crazy how much I needed to read this today.

Heather said...

Soi follow your blog and I follow small things blog, I was so excited to see you on the small things blog. Yea!

Miss Meg said...

I needed this post this morning. The story about your search for fries happens to me all the time. Thank you for some inspiration :-)

Nicole said...

This is such a great reminder that we should be focusing on what matters most to us and not what brings us down or distracts us in our daily lives. Thanks!

Andrea D said...

I just stumbled across your blog and I wanted to stop to tell you your posts are so inspiring. It's amazing how much good you're doing through all of the projects you're involved with and it's inspirational to read how much you truly believe in what you're doing to help other people.
Kudos! If we could all just do a fraction of what you do every day, I'm sure the world would be a much "shinier" place :)

Andrea

Nicole said...

You are very pretty and I like your outfit!

Bonnie said...

I think I have a love affair with your hair. It's perfect.

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Megan said...

So inspiring. I am starting my Make A Change jar today!

Unknown said...

Really inspiring! Love your project! :)

Beth @ The Goad Abode said...

Love Simon Sinek's Start With the Why :) great inspiration for sure!!!